Original Commentary
Kimberly's mother is actually 25 years older than her daughter- she just didn't age well.

Modern Commentary
That's good advice. It's not complete. You should be the best version of yourself when meeting new people, because we all have facets and you choose which sides to show. You should actively listen to other people and pay attention to them. Make them feel important. Remember their name. Be a good listener.
But most importantly, do not compare Kimberly to her mother.- Terrence